Celebrating Deepavali

Deepavali kolam at KLCC

I don’t get excited any more. I don’t think even my much younger nieces and nephews get excited. The one person in the family who does is my mum. We know Deepavali is happening because of the almost childlike excitement my mum exudes. Her joy and enthusiasm are palpable. She gets into prep mode, well […]

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French

French is hard on my Indian tongue

I like the way French sounds to my ears.  Almost musical with the right intonations. If I could feel the French language, I would say it would be like a bed of pillowy soft marshmallows. I don’t speak French. I wish I could.  My Indian tongue gets twisted and I mangle the words.  Whatever words I […]

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Invisible people

Invisibly and quietly doing all types of jobs

Issues relating to foreign workers emerge regularly in Malaysia. Hiring programs, levies imposed, illegal and legal status, recruitment agents and negotiations with source countries are some recurring topics.

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Do now list

If we knew we were going to die in a year or within a specific time frame, what would we do? This is not a morbid thought or question, if anything it made me think about what I wanted, liked and enjoyed most in my life. My husband and I intermittently speak about what we would […]

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Old and older

Age has a way of happening. You get a bit older every year, but the ‘getting older’ process is so gradual that it sort of sneaks up on you. I felt like the face, body and mind, and the general attitude packed-up and forgot to tell me about it.

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A proud again Malaysian

Malaysian flag flies high again

I am happier. I feel like a weight has been lifted. And, it will and has to be better because it couldn’t get any worse than it was.  I am a happy and proud again Malaysian. I no longer feel shy or fudge my nationality when I am overseas. Yes, I did it. Not from […]

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Being aware

I will not fare well if I have to give evidence in a court or to the police. Not because I would be nervous and a little intimidated by the seriousness attached to these offices, well that as well, but more so because I just don’t take enough notice of things happening around me, which […]

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Chocolate addict

I want to eat healthy and enjoy my chocolate and desserts in moderation, like most normal people I know. But I falter big time in the face of chocolaty enticements. Simple logic betrays me every time chocolates and sweets are involved.

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Forever friends

When we meet up we chat and laugh as if time has stood still. There is an easy comfort. No airs, no pretensions. Babbling away about anything and everything. And yet, we didn’t keep in touch for over a decade.

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